Every couple of weeks, I visit the Netflix website and add movies to our queues. We have two queues, one for instant movies streamed to our computer or wii and the other for DVDs mailed to our home. We can watch the movies in the instant queue in any order so this one is easy to maintain. Any movie that offers the choice for instant queue, that is what I choose. As for the DVD queue, the movies are listed in the order they will be shipped. I am careful to rotate movies to please everyone in the family, so sometimes I have to adjust the order of these movies. There are a few types of movies that make their way into our queue. We watch a lot of documentaries about topics we are discussing, especially in social studies and science (Drive Thru History). When we have read a book and there is a movie version available, we watch those (most recently The Hiding Place and Chronicles of Narnia). Our youngest daughter likes to watch the cartoons that have a little lesson in them (her favorite is Sid the Science Kid). As for entertainment, we use Netflix rather than the theater or most other rental places. We sometimes wait longer for movies, but we don't mind. Our recent favorites have been The Secrets of Jonathan Sperry and The Ultimate Gift. We definitely get our money's worth each month.
- Check the source of the movie before showing it to your kids. You don't want to be caught off guard when a science video states something as fact that is simply theory or a history video promotes a point of view that disagrees with your beliefs. I'm not saying don't show the video because sometimes these are great discussion starters, just be prepared.
- Know that it's OK to only show parts of a movie. You pay a flat fee for Netflix, regardless of how many movies you watch. Take advantage of this and share clips with your kids. There have been several occasions when we have used bits and pieces of movies to emphasize a specific something and known that we never would watch the entire movie.
- As with anything, take caution in what you introduce. There have been occasions when we have told our kids before watching a show that we are watching a specific portion for a specific purpose and this will not be a regular part of our queue. This has helped us avoid heartache with some particular series that have a good portion here and there but are not generally on our approved list.
- This may be a no-brainer, but talk to your kids about what they have watched and train them to be discerning. We have an on-going dialogue about what is and isn't appropriate for our family. Our kids (even the young ones) are great critics and have decided without prompting to turn some things off. This is success to me because I want to raise people who can make responsible decisions for themselves, not just do what I tell them to do.